MEMORY DOWN THE LANE...

MEMORY DOWN THE LANE...

I wana go back to the time when we dint know what fear was.

I wana go back to the time when everything in the world seemed possible.

I wana go back to the time when love was Mom and Dad.

I wana go back to the time when hatred was our homework.

I wana go back to the time only thing we use to be afraid of was mom’s scolding.

I wana go back to the time when our all the time was for our friends.

I wana go back to the time when our worst enemies were siblings.

I wana go back to the time when the moon use to be “chanda mama”.

I wana go back to the time when a chocolate was the highest reward.

I wana go back to the time when we always wanted to grew up fast.

I wana go back to the time when evening were for nothing but to play.

I wana go back to the time when we eagerly use to wait for Sunday.


But the saddest part is that I cant go back to that time,

Those days are a part of dream, those moments are sublime.

But still ruminating upon it makes my heart pump fast…

What makes me smile today is a thing of the past.

Why Do We Cry :-(

Well it is said that crying is a more complicated process than one would at first imagine.
Goin with the scientific reason: - There are really three different types of tears. Basal tears keep our eyes lubricated constantly. Reflex tears are produced when our eyes get irritated, like with onions or when something gets into our eyes. The third kind of tear is produced when the body reacts emotionally to something. Each type of tear contains different amounts of chemical proteins and hormones. Scientists have discovered that the emotional tears contain higher levels of manganese and the hormone prolactin, and this contributes in a reduction of both of these in the body; thus helping to keep depression away.
But who the hell thinks about all this , when we cry, we don’t care whether our emotional tear is filled with manganese and hormone prolactin,….. all we know is that we are hurt , we feel so emotionally weak and shattered. If I had to put it I shall say wen we cry the reason is always someone very close to our heart as they only have the power to batter us….. and this power is given by us only. We consider them larger than life for us and when they fall short on our expectations or some unexpected behavior being displayed by them….. it cuts like a knife. Unintentionally tears roll down our eyes and our heart is filled with grief.
And these EXPECTATIONS…. They are seldom fulfilled…. We all have heard it or being told by some or other, that you should not expect, the kinda Geeta gyan “karm kare jaa phal ki chinta mat kar”…. But at the end of all this is that God made us “human” and the very basic nature of human is to expect. Despite knowing the side effects we expect. And its like a vicious circle… we expect, we are hurt, we cry….we again expect, we are hurt, we cry…..
Crying is at the very core of it… especially if u happen to be the ‘weaker sex’ like me. The very human is emotional and the God made us all the more emotionally sensitive….so guys its not our fault if we cry…. U better blame the almighty.

So all my frens out there i just wana say dont cry for some-one who doesnt deserve it cuz ur tears are really very precious dont waste it for some dumb-witted guy who hurts u every now and then....its beter be some-one who comes a long way just to wipe your tears, gives u a tight bear hug...and helps finding ur lost smile once again... :)