Itz amazing that when you watch a movie and those three hours you get so engrossed in it, put out of your mind your daily worries. BUT provided that the movie is worth watching otherwise you go through a series of torture and then repenting to have wasted your time and more importantly ur meager funds, if u happen to be a student like me!
We went for this movie yesterday, not an awesome movie though but yes surely a good watch just to go offtrack from your daily monotonous life. It was kinda nice flick on which I ruminated upon for long. It makes u realise how important are friends in ur life. And wen I say friends I mean “true” friends , not any Tom Dick and Harry who happens to talk to you and therefore is one of ur fren. A true friend is a little more than a very good friend. I mean here friends who are there with u alwayz regardless of other various factors. Some one has said that a true friend is the one who knows the song in ur heart n can sing it back to u wen u hv forgotten the lyrics.
And then about the ‘perfect’ guy. Don’t we all gals make a picture of this guy we want to be with, one who has got the best compostion and combination of looks, personality, status etc etc etc… But what if we really get a guy like this? will he be able to keep us happy? Well that part is something we don’t calculate as we are already aware that the picture that we have have built is really not possible to get in flesh n blood. And now the question arises that Who can keep u happy? When are u happy? Do we really need others to keep us happy? It is said that we should not try to find happiness around ourselves but in ourselves. But seriously with whom are you most happy? May be with someone in front of whom you are what you are. Who loves u the way u are. In front of whom u can let go “weigh before u say” part for a toss and just speak ur mind, ur thoughts pure and unaltered. And more importantly who takes ur thoughts in the same manner as they are intented. And THAT person need not be ur Mr. Perfect. It could even be ur best friend. Someone who comes first in ur mind wen u r in a soup or wen u r feeling blue. Someone after talking to whom you feel everything is in its place and the world makes sense again. Someone who can pull u out of ur shell and make you live life to its fullest. Someone with whom you enjoy doing even the most stupid of things. And the list goes on….
You don’t agree with me! Go and watch the movie den u myt b able to get what i hv written over here.
Hey Kiddo...
ReplyDeleteI believe you are in some kind of illusion......I failed to understand where you need to unwind yourself, you are tightly winding up....where you should rarely put your expectaion, you are all into expectation....who are your friends and who are not let the moment and time decide it....I fail to understand why you have created so many categories for yourself...like Good Friends...Best Friends...little more than just good friends....the essence of friendship is not into creating categories of it, but to enjoy it without any further categorization and living it....remove these extra burden of boundaries and then try to live....you would love it...
I feel ur perfectly right. V all lie to each other and ourselves at many point of time...this world is full of people who r just gud actors.
ReplyDeleteU hv potrayed it quite well...keep it up!!